27 April, 2010

INSPIRE YOUR GUY TO RISE AND SMILE

No relationship is perfect, but there are simple ways to keep the peace. Bounce back after a bad fight with these tips.

GIVE HIM SOME ROOM TO BREATHE
Time apart gives you a chance to step back and gain insight about what's wrong between you. If he expressed a need of space, give him what he wants instead of arguing with him. The realizations both of you make while apart will help your relationship. 

GET HIM TO LISTEN
Even if your partner is very upset, the key to get him to be able to hear you is to give him plenty of acknowledgement, appreciation and acceptance. Be patient and resist the urge to blame or judge when the lines of communication between you and your guy start getting muddled.

SHOW HIM SOME SYMPATHY
Encourage him to share his sentiments by empathizing with him. Whenever your partner says something important to you, you should state in your own words what you think your partner just said. Doing so will give him the feeling that his words did not fall on deaf ears.

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